Consequences of Stress on Children's Development:
Poverty
Poverty is one
of the most debilitating conditions for children (R. H. & Corwyn, 2003).
Most researchers believe that it is poverty's devastating effect on parenting
that explains poor social outcomes. Consequently, this has led me to tell the
story about one of my Grade 2 students, whose name is Mark, living with his
family in absolute poverty (lack of the basic needs in his home - food, running
water, proper sanitation, clothing, shelter, health care, and education).
Undoubtedly, Mark and his family (grandmother,
father and siblings) reside in the capital of the country, dwelling in a dilapidated
galvanize building that is erected at the front of the bay. His mother
(grandmother's daughter) who was unemployed at the time, fled the scene before Mark was five years old,
since she could not have stood the pressure in the home. They claimed that, she
is now living in a common-law relationship with another man in the rural area
of the country, and never looked back on her children. Mark's grandmother and his father are also unemployed, and have difficulty in
supporting these children, hence, the reason why they had to seek assistance
from people in and around the community.
However, it was in Kindergarten Mark's
conditions were discovered, when his teacher observed that he was frequently
absent from school. He was never properly attired in his school uniform, always
untidy, with uncombed hair, and an unpleasant smell that was coming from his
body, which made his classmates, not wanting to sit next to him, neither
playing with him. Mc Loyd (1998) postulated that, children in poverty are more
likely to suffer emotional challenges, and, as a result, to be less successful
in their relationships with peers.
On the other hand, Mark habitually came to
school without breakfast, so, the principal and teachers had to intervene on
his behalf, and summoned his father and grandmother to the school. Upon
extensive inquiry, and proper two-way communication, we realized that this
family was very destitute. Consequently, the school became an advocate for this
family, then began to play an active role in Mark's life, seeking its
transformation. Gordon & Browne (2011) claimed that, there is a strict
correlation between poverty and school failure, since children who start at a
disadvantage, fall farther behind in academic achievement throughout their
school years. Because of this, teachers at the school did not want such thing
to happen to Mark, so, for this reason, we had to make an interception at this
early stage.
Due to teachers'
generosity, Mark's low self-esteem has been elevated to high self-esteem. He is
now well attired when coming to school, always regular and punctual, and is enlisted on the school's feeding
program. Even though Mark is living in poverty,
and was at high risk for interference to optimal growth development, he
was not less competent in school-related cognitive tasks, as he waded himself
through Kindergarten to Grade 2. Now, Mark has many friends in school, looks
and feels happier, and sees that
everyone is showing interest in his education, as well as his holistic
development.
Berger, K. S.
(2009). The developing person through childhood. New York, NY: Worth
Publishers.
This was a very touching post and I am pleased to know that Mark is doing well. Believe it or not, there are a lot of families, especially those living in the inner cities, that suffers from poverty just like Mark. As a teacher, I try to make my student’s time with me happy because I do not know what they have to face when they get home. We all like to think and believe that we all go home get dinners started, help our kids with their homework, watch television, eat as a family, and prepare our children and ourselves for bed all in the warmth and comfort of our homes. It is sad to know that the US is a one of the richest countries in the world, yet we have the highest unemployment rates. I do not understand how or why that is, but it is and our children suffer the worst. And, again, kudos to you, your administration and your coworkers that worked together to turn this child’s life around. We need more people like you in this world and may be, just may be, we can change things for the better.
ReplyDeleteI know that children can overcome trying circumstances once they have the support of caring people .Thank you Joan for giving of yourself to helping others like,Mark.
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